tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31542820.post1896637524695190447..comments2024-03-03T12:52:18.548-05:00Comments on Magpie Musing: Sleeping Upstairs with FlorenceMagpiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15460136246441367993noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31542820.post-60273523403213341862012-04-19T13:40:43.036-04:002012-04-19T13:40:43.036-04:00your memory is faulty. Very. Remember the girls ...your memory is faulty. Very. Remember the girls who got pregnant in HS? Plueez. I am sure you discussed it.<br />My mother talked about sex. We thought it was so embarrassing. She was very sure we knew everything about it but then basically told us to be virgins until marriage.HS BFFnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31542820.post-32644719002983988692012-04-19T12:51:05.540-04:002012-04-19T12:51:05.540-04:00This was interesting to me...both your post and th...This was interesting to me...both your post and the originals. As a parent to a 17 year old, it is something that I very much struggle with. As a parent that gave birth to that 17 year old when I was 20, I know the realities. And we talk. It was easier to talk about it in the abstract, when she was small. It becomes much more right now, than just talk. And balancing all of that emotional stuff with the logical stuff and the personal belief stuff is super hard. I just hope I am doing at least one of those things right.InTheFastLanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09691830067979224059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31542820.post-26362020002342166842012-04-18T17:16:03.119-04:002012-04-18T17:16:03.119-04:00You probably k ow this, but I talk and talk and ta...You probably k ow this, but I talk and talk and talk to my kids about all of it. I want it to be a comfortable topic for when things get hairier (no pun intended ) than they are right now. I remember feeling pleased as punch when my nine-year-old son once explained the function of the Fallopian tubes - hell, there are probably some grown men out there who can't do that!Pinkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08948376756823353774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31542820.post-65008199565726789682012-04-17T14:31:59.893-04:002012-04-17T14:31:59.893-04:00I've talked to my kids about sex in very short...I've talked to my kids about sex in very short snippets since they were elementary school age--it may have come up when the older child was about eight, the first time. They hear things, and I was teaching a class on Sex in Literature (officially called "Relationships and Dialogues") at the time. As they got older, when it would come up and we'd have another brief conversation (brief because they only wanted to know one thing at a time), I would sometimes say that they need to think about this stuff logically, before they start getting jerked around by their hormones. Now they're 16 and 18 and they occasionally tell me stuff I didn't know. That's good for my continuing education!Jeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01374498643286099244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31542820.post-91240748755316186442012-04-16T23:30:48.801-04:002012-04-16T23:30:48.801-04:00I talk, talk, talk to my kids. With the youngest b...I talk, talk, talk to my kids. With the youngest being 17 I can say that I am extremely impressed with how they have handled their sex lives thus far.<br /><br />My college freshman son has his long-time girlfriend sleep over with our blessing and that of her mother.Jenn @ Juggling Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14455967210924573398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31542820.post-92223153277284173832012-04-16T21:22:03.710-04:002012-04-16T21:22:03.710-04:00I bought The Offspring It's Not The Stork a co...I bought The Offspring It's Not The Stork a couple of years ago, and when it was clear he was looking for more information, It's So Amazing. So he has the basic facts about reproduction. But that's not what you're asking, is it? Is it really already time for that conversation? He's such a young eight; it's only recently occurred to him to forbid me from being affectionate in front of his schoolmates.Heide Esteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08022964463219865228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31542820.post-16809805426061685742012-04-16T16:15:32.494-04:002012-04-16T16:15:32.494-04:00LOL @ Gina. Like her, my mother never mentioned se...LOL @ Gina. Like her, my mother never mentioned sex, and so I did it a lot, without anyone knowing. Or maybe my parents looked the other way. Who knows. <br /><br />I have two sons, so I've told my husband he's in charge of the sex talk. That doesn't mean I won't have my say, though. I want them to know there's a difference b/t screwing and making love, as corny as that sounds. Knowing that alone might have kept me a little less active, so to speak.Frogs in my formulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15588651443689809504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31542820.post-70773787986767295272012-04-16T13:09:29.758-04:002012-04-16T13:09:29.758-04:00My mother never talked to me about sex. While she ...My mother never talked to me about sex. While she would insist that she did (my mom has a very selective and creative memory - but that's a whole novel of crazy). She only even brought up sex twice VERY vaguely and WAY too late. <br /><br />Once when I was 17 she stormed in my room at 6:00 am to hiss "I hope you're not having SEX!" (I still have no idea what prompted that) - I tiredly lied that I was not (when in fact, I was having it as often as possible) and she chose to believe me because she is the type to avoid & pretend.<br /><br />The 2nd time was when I was 21 and dating my (now) husband who is 9 years older and in the middle on a conversation, she said, "you know, he's older than you and will probably expect more - I hope you're taking care of things." and then quickly moved on to more important issues like when was I going to lose some weight from my size 6 body, and how I should wear lipstick.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00684328990767140199noreply@blogger.com